"The relationship should be simple as two pennies, because love does not count".
The relationship has a chance to be long-term, should not be difficult to determine. How much time a person is able to make the brain of themselves and others in non-stop mode? Well, six months, a year, in very advanced cases — a couple of years. And then it all gets over and the public in mournful silence leaves the auditorium, leaving the hero alone to sweat on stage under the heat of spotlights.
The so-called complicated relationship, all of these "come, gone" and many hours of conversations about high — is from a surplus of free time. This is the wrong attitude. Seriously! It is as if you come into the showroom and want a Bentley, although your money in the best enough for a down payment on a Opel in the base set. You can come to this salon for years, but all you Shine — it is still Opel. You will say that Bentley is the only thing that suits you, you will proklyate skull with all your family and friends, you will make a sad face and wringing his hands, you will spoil your life, you will elevate suffering into a fetish, but you never stop to think that all you need is a sturdy, reliable workhorse with a working AC, clean interior and proper tires that will take you from point A to point B.
Relationships should be simple as two pennies. No matter whether he is a genius physicist or a simple Bob-Miller, no matter what his education, how many languages he speaks, how many women he had and whether he writes poetry, the only important thing is how you are comfortable with him. If he brings you to depression, if you are not with him is less bad than without it, if you know that you with it do not Shine, if it makes you a brain if he loves all these frazochki: "I'm not ready", or "We should wait", or "I need to think", or "It is so difficult", — say Goodbye to it forever! Whether you loved it or really it was just a whim — you will only understand much later, so you have absolutely nothing to lose.
Love in General is not measurable, love is often mistaken lust, respect, habit, jealousy, desire to get even and much more. From "complicated" relationship you don't win anything except a headache. If you want it, this headache, if you can live without it, can't find the courage to admit that you need not this particular man, and that headache you get with him. And learn how to extract the headache of a more productive relationship, just warn the Right man, on Wednesdays and Saturdays you — uniforms bitch, let him be prepared in advance.
Again and again: the relationship should be simple. You're with this person to give birth to children, agriculture news, plans to build, to visit, to communicate with relatives and generally to conduct the most that neither is a primitive narrow-minded way of life. And if you think that you will pass this Cup, you are very much mistaken.
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